What it feels like to be yourself!!

So what have you achieved so far by being yourself?

Here are a few laurels you might have embraced by now

  • Being taken for granted
  • Being cornered out  (because being pretentious is the new cool)
  • Being bitched about (because you are upfront)
  • Being Broke (because you either have a bad time or too many values)
  • Being Betrayed (because you were too cool as a partner. You never asked and he never told!)
  • Being numb at even the most critical situations.

Now your perception will force you to see the positive in a pool of negatives,which is cool.

But you know what you are missing out on? LIFE!!!

There are certain things which are by default in this world and it is better for us to acquaint ourselves with  them at the earliest.My observations say:

  1. If you have friends,keep them,meet them.If not, make them.It’s healthy.
  2. Parents are a priority.Don’t let them down.Cherish them.
  3. If you have a challenged relationship,move out.Cheating issues, move out.If you begin deleting your messages so that the other person doesn’t see them,Totally move out! If you discover (as he would never ever tell you on his own, you have to find out) your spouse random flirting in parties or on social media.Trash the jerk into garbage and move on!
  4. Guys will be guys,They melt with boobs and booty! They will ogle and never admit.
  5. Being independent is extremely necessary.Being self-sufficient too.
  6. Always Save money!!!!
  7. Be kind,Also take nobody’s shit!
  8. Every girl in this world is after money and a handsome Super duper rich man to lean on! If you happen to meet an exception.Don’t give up on her.Keep her till eternity.
  9. Do not interfere too much.(Don’t be poky)
  10. Do judge,but don’t show!

Let’s not complicate too much.Let’s find out as to what exactly our problems are,so as to live peacefully.

Why would you want to be someone else
When you could be better by being yourself
Why pretend to be someone you are not
When you have something they haven’t got

Cheating yourself of the life you have to live
Deprives others of that only which you can give
You have much more to offer by being just you
Than walking around in someone else’s shoes

Trying to live the life of another is a mistake
It is a masquerade; nothing more than a fake
Be yourself and let your qualities show through
Others will love you more for being just you not who others want to see.

We are who we allow ourselves to become we get what we give, we give what we get so give it your all and don’t ever give up.Be the best you be the person you want to be just remember to be yourself.We are perfectly imperfect and beautiful within because beauty isn’t skin deep,it’s deeper than the skin.

This day is yours it belongs to no one but you put one foot in front of the other and take a step closer to making all your dreams come true

You are perfectly imperfect and this is okay because no one is flawless, no one is perfectly made

You are beautiful within and your smile reflects the love inside your heart
So, share a grin and let others see who you are

Be the best you,just be who you are inside
be the person that makes you happy and live your best life.





Scientology! Why a Fuss?

I am not against any religion,but I sure choose not to follow the “so-called” rituals as they make no sense to me! I believe in gaining knowledge about every religion,its history and everything. As Ernest Hemingway said “All thinking men are atheists.” I am writing this bold post which might hurt the sentiments of various religious people but I do not mean to hurt their sentiments in anyway.I am trying to put forth my opinion.

Scientology has been gaining a lot of attention lately,it is a body of beliefs and related practices created by American science fiction author L. Ron Hubbard

In 1950, Hubbard published Dianetics: The Modern Science of Mental Health, explaining the process of auditing, in which a counselor guides a subject who recalls traumatic memories in order to resolve the negative emotions associated with those memories.After losing the rights to the name Dianetics, Hubbard created an expansion called Scientology. In 1953 he incorporated the Church of Scientology in Camden, New Jersey. Scientology teaches that people are immortal beings who have forgotten their true nature.

Scientology is one of the most controversial new religious movements to have arisen in the 20th century. The church is often characterized as a cult, and it has faced harsh scrutiny for many of its practices, which, critics contend, include brainwashing and routinely defrauding its members,as well as attacking its critics and perceived enemies with psychological abuse, character assassination, and costly lawsuits.

Scientology’s belief that souls (“thetans”) reincarnate and have lived on other planets before living on Earth.]Another controversial belief held by Scientologists is that the practice of psychiatry is destructive and abusive and must be abolished.

Here’s everything one needs to know about Scientology.

  • Hubbard believed that an intergalactic overlord named Xenu expelled humans to Earth from another planet 75 million years ago, and now their souls live in us.
  • The beliefs are centred upon thetan, the individual’s immortal, alien spirit and true identity. Thetans are our intrinsically good, omniscient, non-material core that’s capable of unlimited creativity.
  • It’s alleged that Scientologist leaders go to great lengths to retain celebrity members like John Travolta and Tom Cruise. It has a Celebrity Centre International in Hollywood especially for high profile members.
  • The most dedicated Scientologists, especially the Sea Org members, sign a billion year covenant, indicating their confidence in the afterlife.
  • The church considers itself scientific, although scientists outside of the church commonly dispute this claim.
  • A central practice of Scientology is auditing. An auditor counsels members, attempting to “clear” him or her of false information or traumatic experiences. Auditing sessions are permanently documented.
  • Some of the ways Scientology appeals to new members is through self-help programs for addicts and criminals, as well as its focus on its members reaching true spiritual enlightenment and individual freedom.
  • Scientology does not address the reality of a divine being or the nature of ultimate reality, so members are free to believe what they wish about this.
  • As Scientologists grow deeper in the faith, some assert that they develop superpowers such as mind reading and the ability to move objects with thought. (hard to believe though)

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Countless choices decide our fate.A choice about what to follow and what not is completely yours to make.

All that I can say is Live Love Laugh Read!


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